With Baby ETJB's 3 cousins and grandmother in town we walked for nearby
pizza. An intended purpose to this outing is the superfun fountain afterwards (next to the
ice cream store).
So, there's this guy half-watching a boy. The boy is jumping/clearing the water with encouragement from a distracted iPhone checking guardian: O nice one! O you didn't quite make that one! O you are the best!...barely looking up.
Baby ETJB was all excited and like the other toddlers,
actually playing in the water. Well, you can see where this is going. After hurdling the fountain spray, the kid--7 or 8 years old-- runs right into Baby ETJB, knocks her over so that she hits the back of her head on the brick. Both kids crying and screaming,
the boy is crying louder. I pick Baby ETJB up to console her; and the iPhone guy (don't get me wrong--I want an iPhone!) is like: Look! he is hurt too!!...pointing at a bruise on the boy's shin that may have been there before the collision for all I know.
Thankfully, Mrs. ETJB was in Gifford's while all this went down. Knowing that if the baby is crying, it's pretty much ok, I was cool about the whole thing.
I really didn't know what to say though; How about:
I suppose it is possible that my 2 year old girl hurt your boy when he ran into her. But I didn't say anything. Everything was ok; no big deal.
So, he asked the boy to apologize: apologize to the little girl even though it wasn't your fault, he instructs....
Mrs. ETJB returns with a chocolate cone to share. Everybody is calm and good now. A bump on the the back of the head is all it is; no blood.
Later the boy comes back. I was curious to see if Baby ETJB would be afraid of him; he sure looked afraid of her--at least sheepish. But she was too busy laughing and playing in the water, like the other toddlers and kids.
I suppose these types of confrontations, collisions, accidents will happen 50 more times before she turns 10.